An interactive list
Add your reasons. Then see what the list can't tell you.
From the note Can't make a decision? Hold each future in turn. New here? Read it first, or just start below.
Make the list. Add as many as you want on each side.
Nothing here is saved once you close the page.
Add at least one on each side to continue.
You have probably made this list before, and it did not decide for you.
A list like this weighs reasons against each other. It can't tell you which feeling you'd actually like more of, because it isn't built to ask that.
So hold this decision as if you'd already made it, and you're living in it now. Not as the choice in front of you today.
Give it a moment. Then notice, don't think it through: is this a feeling you'd like more of, or less of?
It doesn't have to feel exciting. Clarity counts as an answer.
Want to weigh it the other way too? Try the two-future version: Hold each future in turn. Or check what staying is actually costing you: What is waiting costing you?
If the decision has been stalled a long time, that's a conversation more than a tool. I keep a free 45-minute call open for exactly that.